There are lots of people like your stepmother. It is best to just find common ground. How about planting a few primroses on the path to your door and talking about that?
re; monetization going to the developing world
What would you do if you had $500,000 to invest and the world were your oyster?
I would compare distressed real estate in the US, then compare it to Latin America and would probably wind up in Latin America.
I do think there will be a few deals in the US, but they won't be easy.