Those of us who see the system for what it is, avoid it at all costs, and live outside of it, still have difficulties in developing groups of mutual support. It has been one of the great challenges of the last few years for me. I try every day to identify people that I can speak to, encourage and grow. They are hard to find, harder to keep, and nearly impossible to grow, because of the pressures that surround everyone.
I have a gift of not giving a steaming pile of poo about what other people think of me. Unfortunately, that is a rare gift these days.